Book Excerpt

INTRODUCTION

Hey, guys—listen up! Here’s an
ongoing, doable Plan to help you
work through all those dating woes—
and find relationship success! The basic
Plan is something you can incorporate into
your life each week, with lots of flexibility.

Before we get down to it, let me introduce myself. I am the
Gay Matchmaker. To be more specific, I was recently dubbed
“the Dolly Levi for Gay New Yorkers” by the press (and, no, I do not look
or talk like Carol Channing!).

As the founder/owner of ManMate, Inc., New York City’s largest dating and relationship service for gay men, and as a workshop leader and coach, I have guided thousands of gay men through the often-treacherous trenches of dating. I’ve also seen hundreds of happy couples formed in the process. Let me just say firsthand that, throughout over twenty years of extensive matchmaking I have encountered every situation imaginable.